Tuesday 28 November 2017

Avoid comparing with others

Hey guys, it's been a very long time I have posted my words. Since something striked my mind this week while I was at my work. So I would like to share that with you guys.

One of the main reason for our underperformance at work is comparison that we do with others. It can be done by ourselves or by our bosses too. The former one affects our performance the most because it to makes us inferior, less confident, exhausted. Comparison makes our goals to fade away or hazy at least for a short  term which indirectly affects our long term one.
The fact is we can't compare us with others because the framework of one's life is completely different from others. By framework I mean our capabilities, positives, style, nature, work ethics, perspective, etc. The best cliché for this is Never compare an Apple with an orange.

How to overcome this?
The way which I implement is to keep myself in a separate basket. Workout only on your skills and don't indulge in judging others. The more we judge others, the more we feel broken. Enhance your skills regularly, compare yourself from past and now. Through this we become more competent to ourself and will feel energetic.
Try not to resent others success.  Appreciate them instead.
Hope this might be helpful to face comparisons.
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