Avoid comparing with others

Hey guys, it's been a very long time I have posted my words. Since something striked my mind this week while I was at my work. So I would like to share that with you guys.

One of the main reason for our underperformance at work is comparison that we do with others. It can be done by ourselves or by our bosses too. The former one affects our performance the most because it to makes us inferior, less confident, exhausted. Comparison makes our goals to fade away or hazy at least for a short  term which indirectly affects our long term one.
The fact is we can't compare us with others because the framework of one's life is completely different from others. By framework I mean our capabilities, positives, style, nature, work ethics, perspective, etc. The best cliché for this is Never compare an Apple with an orange.

How to overcome this?
The way which I implement is to keep myself in a separate basket. Workout only on your skills and don't indulge in judging others. The more we judge others, the more we feel broken. Enhance your skills regularly, compare yourself from past and now. Through this we become more competent to ourself and will feel energetic.
Try not to resent others success.  Appreciate them instead.
Hope this might be helpful to face comparisons.
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Unleash your thoughts

I figured out something while I had a chit chat with a strange guy. And I want to share it with you all.
We always limit our thoughts by setting a goal. I believe that whenever we set a goal, we set it by taking our present situation into consideration. By doing this, we indirectly limit our thoughts and actions because we already have fixed a destination. When the above stated happens, the real potential of us will not be revealed. we will never come to know what is our capability.
If we have to, then just avoid seeing goals. By this, we will possess a free body and mind that has no limit in the pace. Only thing that we should make sure it's that, we give our best daily. Have commitment towards the work you do, every ball that we hit should be aimed for home run. Never stop trying to do your best every moment.
When all of these happens in a career which you are passionate about, sky is the limit. You will be the benchmark for self and others. Break your own records, let others don't do it before you.
Most of our time at work, we waste time by setting our goals. Let's not do it, instead we shall concentrate on our tasks. The goals that were never set will be achieved without any stress in our mind.
Leave your comments below. It's a great motivation for me to write more.
Thankyou friends.

Balance of emotions

Hi guys ,
After few days experience, I have arrived at the topic on which I should write and share it with you all.
Emotional balance:
It's human nature that we need to have emotions and is equally necessary to show it. At times our emotions take the control of the complete situation. This is because of lacking​ ability to ride our emotions.
Emotions play a great role while decision making. If you have balance in emotions, it will aide you to take a firm decision.
And yes, it can also help to eliminate the unwanted stress.
This is essential for the career progression.
When we get to the leadership position where decision making, presence of mind is important, emotional balance is necessary.
And to attain this status,
1.you should first construct your mind to recognise the difference between right and wrong. This is the fundamental for building a personality having balanced emotions.
2. Give time some time. When you have multiple thoughts racing in your mind, just sit down and relax. Take some deep breaths that gives your mind freedom. Unchain the thoughts from your mind by their importance for the occassion.
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Seize the opportunity

Hi friends,
It's been awhile I have posted my thoughts. Today Iam here to post about opportunity.
It's human nature to ponder on bad luck. Some of us waste our time by overthinking on luck. As a result we miss out the day where we have to contribute our best to accomplish our aim.
Let me throw some light on that issue. In order to give our best, we have to be sure that the work  we do is something we really love. When you love something, the hardships that you go through will actually not be a big deal. Interest in that work will disguise it. So, that's how you give out your best every moment.
If you do the above, luck will favour you. As a matter of fact, you will realise the depth of the opportunity that you get. This will definitely result in seizing that chance.
Be very cautious on what you choose as your aim. It should act as a great driving force that never makes you feel monotonous. Love the work you do.
Please leave your comment below. That really motivates me.

Be selfdriven

Hi friends
It took a bit long for me to get the content to script in my blog. Here it is what I felt recently. This might give you a push to move on.
SELF DRIVEN:
It's natural that we all of us stammer in some point of our life with our view and ideas completely burnt. Most of us go in search for people who might give us their opinions about the next step we could take.
Yes it's really kind of them who really care about us. But the fact is they are humans too and they might go wrong sometimes. This is because none of them can have a clear picture of happenings in our life. So it's better we help ourselves.
Let's be introspective. Look into yourself. You will get to know the answers for many dormant questions. Find out the answers for those honestly. This will drive you forward with mere self confidence and positively.
It's difficult but not impossible.
You are the difficult question and only you can give the best answer.
Leave your comments as feedback.

Tip for satisfied life

Dear friends,
We know that satisfaction is an element that most of us need but never accept it when it's put on our plate.
This is completely natural and we don't have to regret to have this. But yes we can lessen it eventually by changing our view of our life.
The best way to close the door for unsatisfactor can be by looking people who are below us financially as that's the only attribute in which we most are unsatisfied.
There are millions who still dream to have life that we live now. This means we are so blessed to have this life of ours.
By this I don't try to convey to have big goals in our life. Let our goals be calculative and achievable.
Having a goal which is far beyond our thinking robs our inner calm gradually developing the unsatisfaction.
Try developing habit of giving to poor when you get a good amount of money. This habit will definitely make you less craving for the possession of more money. And where the money plays the secondary role there exists satisfaction and inner peace.

Please comment below your suggestion on my words.
Thank you.

Remedy for stress

It's normal that we all have stress during our work . The main reason behind it is that we let our work influence our mind.
Stress also occurs when we get random thoughts running in our mind irrelevant to the present moment. These thoughts causes negative vibrations that makes our performance constricted.
One of the possible ways to eradicate stress gradually is by controlling our thoughts that aren't necessary at the present moment.
Spiritual understanding of self will aide to perform the above.
Whenever you do some work just focus on that regardless of the repercussion.
This could help us not to let our thoughts to wander.
Start loving the work you do even the task being simple.

Unanswered question!!?

Sometimes I feel that am all alone
Later I get a feel am in a crowd.

There were moments I was confident
Never knew how it got washed out later.

Some happenings made me stronger
While few gave a knee jerk.

I really was in need of a guide at times
EvenThough I have been a adviser.

I have never felt what builds me
But had a view of what broke me.

I had courage to tell what I felt wrong
But also hesitated since it breaks relation.

Sometimes I knew what I want to be
At times was confused for the same.

Sometimes I wanted to make money
But later I wished to make memories.

I was afraid to look after my family
But I always wished I want family.

I believed that love is the key  for life.
Few moments taught angry is the key.

Wondered why I would pray a statue
But realized the creators craft of life.

WHAT AM I?
The unanswered question will last for years.

Its all about faith

We have always wondered why there are good and bad things happen to us. The main reason is the faith that we have in those.For eg: If you face a challenge which was never been faced by by in your lifetime, and you have faith in you that you will accomplish it, sure you will do it. If you don't have faith in  you then vice versa happens.
The most needed element to move on in our life is FAITH . If you possess that then you never worry about any of the below:
1.Failure
2.Disappointment
2.Politics in your work environment
 Moreover you will feel liberal. you will not be dependent on any of them for your work to be don't.
You will possess the courage to face whatever the situation or challenge is.You will just fold your sleeves and knock out all the  negative elements .
 Its just us who are responsible for the happenings of our life.
Have faith in good things .You will have a prosperous life.
Let's all start the upcoming year of 2017 with  full of Faith in Ourself.
Cheersss..
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To Be gentle

Hi friends!
Let me park myself on the subject directly.
I have a thought that the main cause for instability in our day to day peace is that we get confused between self respect and dominance. This is the case both in personal and professional life.
All of us demand for respect from others but very few give it back.
It never costs us anything to give what we take.we should first accept the fact that all are equal. We go off track when promotions knock our door.
Never take the praisings to your head. If you take this piece of suggestion you will start respecting all your subordinates. Later it will be your character of being gentle.
In fact we all want to be genuine deep inside but the issue is we never take steps to let it out.
Take the step and it will become your character.
Be gentle.
Dass..

Be bold enough to commit mistakes

Hi There!

• I came across this realization while I was reading a book. We all have experienced the fear of doing mistakes. But we are not aware of the learning and confidence that we obtain from it

 The best learning does not come from the things we have succeeded, it comes from the failures that we have faced. But this only happens when when we make a profound study from our mistakes and find way to eradicate it.
I do not mean to commit mistake wantedly.I just convey that we should never back off from taking a risk both in our personal and professional life.
You know millions of leaders and big fish who arose by the learning that they got from their mistakes and failures.
This is just about the fear factor that we all possess deep inside us before even initiating a task .

• To make a wrong decision during critical times is much better than being a chicken.

 Be a brave heart.

Real Work ethic

Folks! Here I try to put in my thoughts and view regarding the work ethic that we should maintain in our workplace so that we will have positive energy surrounded .
1.Don't be Result Maniac:
  It is nature that when we get conscious about the result of work that we have not yet initiated, the flow and  confidence get breakdown. This will make us feel even simple work as transcend even though we try our best of the ability.
 The only way to obtain the best result is to never care about the result. When we do our work , our part is to do it with utmost sincerity and wholeheartedly without even having a bit of curiosity about the win or lose of ourself.
Give your best shot every time you face the ball regardless of the pace.
Hope this will help you do your best.
Be the best of yourself. 

Leader's Quality

Hey folks, I have undergone many circumstances where people have adviced me about qualities that one should possess to be a good leader. Somehow I found out two of the most needed quality to be a leader. And those are:
1. BE THE BEST LISTENER:
       As a leader we have to manage few people under us. They all have their own opinions and approach. As a leader we must listen to everyone's view carefully in order to draw a conclusion. This quality results in a better decision and also satisfied subordinates when they are being recognized.
2. BE AN EXTROVERT:
       This of course is linked to the above one. In fact to be a good listener we should be an extrovert. This word explains us that we should be social among our colleagues. Never try to be fond of credits. Let your team mates receive them, when they have a part in any successful activity. And when failures come, Just don't blame them. Take part in the failure and derive a solution after a discussion with others for that problem so that it never occurs in future.
Hope this helped you.
Cheers leaders.!!

Stress Buster

In this modern world all the youngster like me are so frustrated with the pressure and long hours working. And the result is health problems. We do long hours of work to earn more and end of the day we spend all our earnings on our health.
I recently figured out a good stress buster which you could implement. HOBBY is the name of that. Research says that person who has a hobby tend to be stress free even after doing long hours of work. Hobby could be anything like reading, exercise, writing, and even being Radio Jockey.
Just restart a hobby that has been dormant till date. Eventually that will become your habit and you will feel stress free for sure.
But just make sure you don't stress on your hobby too. Let it go naturally and do what you love.
Have a stress free life and healthy mind.

Speakout

I would take this opportunity to put forth my view on being straight forward.
Being a straight forward person is really easy which needs guts in you.
If your start to be fake or constricted the repercussion is to be the same for life time. If you just think deeply about being dependent on someone makes no sense.
We all are aware that we have just one chance to live. Let's live it whole hearted and for us first rather than satisfying others.
Chart out your likes and dislikes, be bold enough to reveal it under necessary circumstances so that no one enters your line of control.
This quality of being outspoken and honest to our self make us more happier and fulfilled. We could survive the challenging situations and pitfalls itself instead of seeking other people for motivation.
Regards.